Somehow, some way I have become a middle seat magnet.
It has gotten to a point where I don’t bother to look at my plane ticket anymore, I just know. Either it’s stamped on my ticket “B” or I’m in the last boarding group which is reserved for middle-seat magnets like myself.
I’m the middle of three boys so maybe that has primed me for this role. The stereotypes of being a middle child; overlooked and neglected go hand in hand with people’s association of the middle seat.
Without doing much research I can safely assume most people like the window and or the ease of the aisle, and I understand why. You have freedom of space, a defined armrest, and easy access to the restroom. And while my imagination likes the window and my bladder likes the aisle, I’ve accepted my fate in the middle.
As a recovering people pleaser and claustrophobic, The Sandwich Seat has taught me a lot.
Such as…
I’ve learned how to write without using much arm, only my hand. I’ve learned how to hop over an asile sleeper without waking them up. I’ve been a baby holder, a sleep rest, a spiritual guide, a peacemaker, a sponge, a friend, a rebound, and a therapist. (sometimes a combo)
Other than occasionally feeling like a sardine, the middle seat rocks. I’m one of those people who wants to hear your full life story. If you don't want to talk, then I’ll talk to the other person. And if they don’t want to talk either, that’s when I’ll participate in the other 99 other activities I Love doing on planes (reading, writing, arithmetic, and watching movies)
Why do I share my tropes as a middle seat man? Well here was my Eureka moment. (Which happened in a middle seat by the way)
I feel like it’s not always things we “like” or that are super “comfortable” that help us grow as people. It’s not always the most convenient and desirable things that help shape and mold who we become.
It’s like this video from Evan Almighty.
“God, Universe, Life” doesn’t give you patience, it gives you the opportunity to be patient.
The middle seat isn’t something I have asked for but I’m learning it has been an incredible learning environment for storytelling, talking with strangers, and having hilarious life experiences.
So, next time life throws you in the middle seat. See if instead of closing yourself off, see what the people to your right and left have to teach you. Who knows? You might make a new friend or learn something new.
And remember be the energy you want to attract.
As always, thanks for supporting me!
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be well,
-Fletch